Frontignan

Welcome to "vacance" which of course is vacation in French. I'm currently in Frontignan la plage which is on the beach so to speak in far southern Provence near Montpelier but around 200 km from Aix. I'm here with my old friend Christine who's a bit like the Energizer Bunny and is the ever present tour guide and cheerleader when it looks like I might be getting a little too relaxed. When we arrived Saturday night the wind was howling at a brisk 35 kph pace and it was in the high 50s which is uncharacteristic for this time of year here. It's Thursday now and it's shaping up to be the first day that it's not going to rain since we arrived. No complaints though as I've seen a lot of the countryside (we rented a car) and have eaten lunch and dinner in some very nice restaurants sampling some really good seafood. Christine's house here is quite nice and very new but there is still work taking place here and I've been a little in the center of that too while here this week. Fortunately that's starting to wind down and this Saturday we travel up into the hills around here to visit some friends of Christine's that I will probably end up playing for Saturday evening.

I've attempted to do some writing here but the lighting in the apartment we're staying in which is downstairs is poor in the evening and that has made it difficult for me to focus. Other things have entered into that too but I'm letting them go. I have played some since getting here but never ventured in DADGAD which is something I very much want to do eventually. I'm also preparing here for our show in Chevagny on the 15th with our friends Fred and Claudia and Xavier. We'll be in Burgundy for that entire week which should be a better place for me to write.

I'm still very much enjoying being surrounded by the French with all of their drama and nuance which still pleases me very much even when I should be annoyed by it all. This is the most time I have spent with Christine and she is marvelous as I remember her but also quite vulnerable and I've reminded her a lot since getting here that she's fine and needs to concentrate more on first things first and not try to do everything all at once. Like it is for all of us, sometimes when we continually wring our hands about things we can and can't control everything usually works out in spite of that.

I head back to Paris on the TGV (high speed train.....WOW, 300 kph) Monday afternoon and then will be home for a week until Cassie and the twins return from their USA sojourn. I intend on doing some writing and recording that week also. Christine is and will remain a great friend of mine and this has been a good escape for me from the crowded and polluted streets of Paris. I will endeavor to post again before leaving on Monday.

I did however turn Christine on to Cassie and my current favorite show "Falling Skies" last night which she enjoyed hugely and we'll continue watching this weekend so she's up to date with it. Ah, American TV, just can't seem to live without it!

Hope everyone is well and happy wherever you happen to be.

Love to all everywhere and bonne vacance!

A bientot,

Sid

The Dryer and Vacance.......*

Bonjour pilgrims,

After another extended absence (I know I keep promising not to do that....) I'm back this morning. Cassie and the twins left for the US Thursday morning and I leave for Frontignan in the South of France this afternoon to spend a little over a week there on the beach and in that area with my old friend Christine Holtzbauer who will be helping my write my book about my experiences with the twins in the schools which even on a slow day is quite a story. Christine is who talked me into doing this (I'm NOT a professional writer) and she wants to translate it into French in hopes that it might help others who have similar family situations to ours here. From what I know, France is about 25 years behind just about everyone else on all things that have to do with Autism and frankly, if our sons had been here when they started school they would have been lost in the system immediately. In any event, it should be an interesting 9 days.
Will keep everyone posted as to when and where the book will be published.

There is a really nice young British lady who will be tending to the cats while I'm gone which leaves me with little or no worry to take the trip. Of course even being at the beach will be interesting for me as I'm not supposed to be out in the sun very much so I'm curious how that's going to go. I will endeavor to post again while there and hopefully also post a couple of photos.

The photo above was taken on July 14th (Bastille Day) from a friend's apartment terrace in Saint Germaine but the camera I was using didn't have a wobble fix. It's the Tour Eiffel with fireworks going off around it.

We've been without a clothes dryer now for over a month and have had 3 repair persons come over the last 3 weeks all of who brought parts none of which ever fixed the dryer. Of course now they won't be back until vacance is over. Perhaps we will never have a dryer again while living here. There's no telling.

My illness is pretty much the same although it's migrated to other parts of my body which I will not share today. Needless to say I'm living with it but as life partners go I'd just as soon murder this one......*

Try and stay cool wherever you are. It's been an unnaturally cool Summer here with temps primarily in the high 60s the last 2 weeks and that won't be topping 75 even over the next 10 days. Fall arrives here in August......

Please keep the folks in Norway in your thoughts today and be happy wherever you are.

Love to all,

Sid

Happy Independence Day (But We're Still Not Free.......*)

Of course we all hear about things like this but we never think it will actually happen to us. Americans are famous for this and almost always slow to react until something bad happens to them personally. For those of you that read this blog, you know that in February of this year I was hospitalized for 9 days of intense invasive testing to rule out any damage to my internal organs due to my contracting Dermatomyositis which is a 10 on anyone's "Weirdshitometer".

My health insurance is courtesy of Carefirst Blue Cross out of Maryland through a contract with Cassie's company.

When one accesses health care in the US we pay a co-pay and then whichever entity we got service from would submit the claim for insurance reimbursement whereas here in France with American insurance, WE have pay CASH and THEN WE HAVE TO SUBMIT THE INVOICES FOR REIMBURSEMENT. Soon after that with Carefirst, the debasement and begging begins as we try and get reimbursed for the literally thousands of dollars we have out of pocket for my continued healthcare here. Let's just say that Carefirst has outdone themselves in elevating their "process" to the point that even their own customer service reps can't get answers from their various divisions none of which share information with each other to the point that even their own executives are sandbagged. Not sure how many of you have ever had over $6800.00 in doctors fees out all at once without reimbursement for over 120+ days but I'll bet you'd be hurtin if that happened to you. Once a company like Carefirst get's a hold of your claim you can just about kiss that money goodbye. The mistake that I made was to get sick in France.

Personally, I have never been so marginalized and that's after stints in both the Army and Navy.
So, even though it's American Independence Day, the Founding Fathers never could have imagined that they'd founded an entire nation held hostage by the insurance companies.

The longer I'm alive and see single payer systems in other countries first hand (IE: France) I become even more convinced that the words "profit" and "healthcare" = OXYMORON. Any thinking person knows that anytime the word profit is used humans get either hurt or ignored while the bottom line is worshiped.

So, I wish all of you fellow American hostages a happy Independence Day but with the caveat that if you're not living in a country with a single payer healthcare system you're actually enslaved in the grand tradition of the southern plantation owners and worse from our country's long and checkered history courtesy of insurance companies that are not checked at all by our government. Those of you who may disagree haven't yet had to debase yourselves enough but mark my words......your day is coming.........although I wish I could say that it won't.

Love to all everywhere......*

Sid